「領導地位不是用__取得的……」

領導地位不是靠主張或命令來的。很多人想要主導或是取得領導地位時採取的策略是大聲嚷嚷、咄咄逼人。但那不是領導….猴子腦會以為策略奏效….但是旁觀者都知道,那不是領導,而是「失去」理智。

 

領導地位不是要來的,而是別人認定的。如果你需要證明自己身處領導地位,那就表示你知道你不是。很多時候我走進獄舍時,值班人員正要失去理智破口大罵時,我只是簡單地說:「各位,請坐。」然後我就先坐下。只要我深信不疑,囚犯們也不會挑戰我的地位。

 

聽起來有點玄,但其實道理很簡單:一旦你認定自己是權威,你便是權威領導地位不是用怒罵取得的。好的領導者不會尖聲怒吼,他會在眾人驚慌失措時顯得泰然自若。這就是所謂的領導….

 

以上閱讀筆記摘要出自書籍羅瑞‧米勒《衝突溝通的技術:美國聯邦危機處理專家教你預測、避免、回應人際衝突的法則》原書名:書名:Conflict Communication: A New Paradigm in Conscious Communication

 

小編司馬儀:我想以上這些說法也適合套用在親子關係的教育中,不要試圖用情緒失控或低情商的怒罵去教育孩子,當你長期這麼做卻不想做出改變,你只會換來孩子的懼怕,而不是孩子的敬重

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