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「倘若有個人願意陪妳把一條三百公尺的路走成三公里。」

《學著,遇見愛》書裡寫道:我們對於「愛」的印象或想像多半集中在「浪漫愛」這個概念上,在愛情中最期待浪漫…似乎不夠浪漫或者不會浪漫就等於對方愛得不夠…浪漫的定義是什麼,這就跟美一樣也難有普世一致的標準…

 

日劇《同窗會》的女主角跟最愛的人分手了,她說因為她愛他愛到她無法承受的地步,我想是愛深了,伴隨同樣重量失去對方的恐懼,而劇中的女主角說,她和另一個人,則可以在親密關係裡好好相處(因為雖然有愛,但不會多到讓她恐懼失去的程度吧?)

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吳曉樂《可是我偏偏不喜歡》

故事裡的女孩用力與男孩親近,保握可能對話的機會,盡力拉長對話,為他留校為他待在網咖,他也曾經承諾陪她走回家,只是她「那時看不出來,倘若有個人願意陪妳把一條三百公尺的路走成三公里,那他對於妳,多半是中意的。我以為一切都是我的一相情願。」

 

某一天他開始刻意隔絕任何接觸,她託信,他退回。他再也不跟她說話了諸多年後,也許是人們都經歷了太多,卸下了太多,他們像多年未見的老友相談甚歡,她為了表明自己對他別無所求只想當朋友….一日,她終於忍不住問了那年的暑假為什麼他一下子就就徹底地疏遠,退到她無法搭話的距離。男孩說了:「如果討厭妳,或對妳生氣,怎麼會為了跟妳講電話講到半夜,而一再挨罵呢?」他終於說出理由,那一年…

延伸閱讀:It Took Him So Long To Realize I Was The Girl He Wanted That When He Finally Did, It Was Too Late By Kelsey Dykstra

“When two souls fall in love, there’s nothing else but yearning to be close to the other […]  This is the reason why you miss someone so much when they are not around.”-Lang Leave 

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