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April Davis:__高滿意度的前提下再結婚….

最佳結婚的時間點

最近看到最有趣的論點,和我過去一個想法有共通處,April Davis主張:當你對你的工作和生活都感到舒心和自信的時候再去結婚!有喜歡的工作和喜歡的生活的前提下,很獨立,對生活有高滿意度的前提下去結婚,更能確定自己不是為了追求安穩.不是為了配合這個社會,或單單為了合適的結婚年齡(人生規劃)而去完成結婚這個待辦清單。

 

當你對工作和生活都有高滿意度,內心的安定度必然較高!反之,如果對工作和生活都不滿意不開心,把愛情視為唯一的快樂及安定感來源,是相對危險的(畢竟愛情變數相對較高)。又,如果你設定自己必須在OO歲的時候結婚,就會變成你OO歲時身邊是哪個交往對象,你就匆促嫁給誰的局面,而不是因為和對方相處最愉快最開心!

 

多數人大概都不認為交往時間的長短可以決定對彼此的的了解程度。關鍵還是在於對方願不願意讓他(她)了解你,關鍵還是在於你願不願意能不能夠讓對方看到自己的脆弱點或不完美的那一面!編輯精選:Singlism Discrimination: 是誰矮化單身族?

 

英國調查:訂婚後20個月再結婚…

英國婚姻機構Bridebook向4,000名已婚夫妻進行調查,調查數據顯示理想的「結婚時機方程式」是交往17個月,同居22個月,訂婚後再相處20個月才結婚。我支持訂婚後至少半年到一年才結婚,因為一些人確實會交往手後或訂婚後(特別是結婚後)大幅度改變對待另一半的方式…

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