愛情學分:必須相信自己值得更好的對待

很多時候,人們對於自己手中握的愛情是好愛情還是壞愛情,比誰都清楚。很多時候,人們能承受廢棄狀態的「幽靈愛情」卻沒有勇氣改變現狀或離開錯愛,因為醒著太痛,只好在痛不欲生的時候在街頭買醉麻痺自己的神經。夜深了,他們又游回那個「餿掉腐敗的感情」,即使他們都清楚那個愛情並不是自己真正想要的,他們說生活壓力太大,太需要取暖,根本沒有餘力療傷,只好賴在快要破裂的感情一邊自虐一邊取暖。

 

寧可錯愛不願單身

日本婚活戀愛情報網站《愛カツ》針對二十歲到三十歲之間的單身女性進行調查,發現超過半數的女生為了不要獨自過耶誕節,只要有人陪,對象是誰都無所謂。當她們被問及「如果收到邀請,哪種男性是妳願意共度耶誕夜的對象?」時,589名女性受訪者中,有超過半數的人(328人,約55%)表示:「任何男性都OK!」

▲日劇劇照-女主角愛上雙重性格的施暴男友,極度體貼和專情的另一面卻是暴力….

 

必須相信自己值得更好的對待

結論是,要終結錯愛,除了自愛自救別無他法,「只有當事人的自覺」可以拯救她自己。這必須要當事人清楚意識到她值得更好的人生、值得更好的男人、值得更好的愛情,而唯有改變自己的生活模式,從愛情以外的地方去提升她的自信,她才能去相信自己夠好,夠值得被尊重、被善待、被重視!唯有當事人意識到她若不切割這段感情,她將嚴重失去自己的人生,如此才有動力拯救自己離開渣男。

 

人生漫長,青春很短,感情很珍貴,你必須相信你會值得更好的人更好的對待。

 

不願承認愛錯的背後

要承認自己不是被愛的那個人,或許會讓人有點受傷吧!要承認愛情已經由濃轉淡,或許會讓人有點感傷吧….明明想要安定下來,卻發現愛情早就已經默默枯萎甚至敗亡,要承認這些辛酸太苦了,所以她們只好繼續說自己還是有好好被愛的,不斷替對方的敷衍甚至背叛找理由找說法…..

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