▲Love can be a blessing, trauma or tattoo to anyone. The essence of love is not totally romantic. It’s also unrealistic and cruel. If you agree that love is based on feeling, passion and infatuation, those things might vanish within days without notice.
▲The past can never be reversed. Treat every single day a rebirth, a reincarnation. Keep moving to the next chapter.
▲You don’t have luxurious time to be wasted in the past. Grab your energy, time and opportunities. Fight it hard. There’s a Chinese phrase titled “逆襲,” which means someone takes back honor and shine with limited chances, capital or resources.
▲Don’t make past love experience crush your confidence. .When it comes to life challenges, sickness and death are much more troublesome than a wrong love relationship. Save your energy for bigger troubles.
▲There’s too much trouble in life. Don’t blame yourself for falling in love with Mr. Wrong.
We have been foolish or blind in love. We are not stupid. We give our full trust out of love. We choose not to doubt but to believe when we truly love someone. Don’t punish yourself for being a fool in love. Don’t be disappointed at yourself for believing a Mr. Wrong.
Life can’t be perfect and impeccable. High IQ can’t make a person be exempt from life regrets. We learn from frustrations.
We might be foolish at times or make wrong decisions from time to time. Don’t nitpick your own life.
▲Throw away harsh self-criticism and so you can get a sound good sleep at midnight.
Indulging yourself in the past regrets does not change anything. Sorrows hurt your mind and body. Nothing else. Detrimental mourning can potentially deteriorate your mental health and physical health subconsciously without any notice.
▲Life is a long journey. It’s a cliché. But it’s true. If you are able to end with each relationship peacefully without backbiting or rumors. That’s good enough. We have seen people who can’t end a toxic relationship for decades.
Men have a lifetime question that why girls date with terrible guys?
Here’s the answer. The jerk guys don’t act like jerks from the very beginning for sure. They can’t get girls’ affection for being a jerk. Conversely, the jerk guys act super considerate, polite, humble and being totally generous. They do everything to please the girls and cater their needs attentively. Some tell lies about their personal achievements, including job, income even their background with an attempt to earn girl’s heart effortlessly. Those men can’t be a gentleman for a lifetime. They can’t be an ideal lover for a long time. It makes time tiresome. They can’t fake themselves all the time. Their acting performance has a limited deadline. Significantly, they are talented compulsive liars.
After all, what can people learn from terrible love relationships? That’s a thought-provoking question, right?
▲ Japanese Drama｜Forever Friends
▲Mr. Wrong: Mr. Wrong appears to have everything you desire from the very beginning of the love relationship especially when he chases after you. But he is acting like a selfish, self-centered and unfaithful asshole after you become his GF or wife. He’s good at shaping his public image, being polite and humble but being bossy, controlling and dominating in private.