兩性專欄|傳達『有你真好』的感覺給另一半

多數人應該都會認同歲月裡最幸福的時光,有時候不在於去那裡或看什麼風景,而在你身邊的人是誰,說了什麼對話。

 

觀察發現,美好感情關係的四大養分

1.對方不斷傳達出”有你真好”的訊息

2. 彼此累積很多快樂和被肯定的情緒

3. 感覺世界上有個人非常理解自己。

4.因為對方,而想成為更好的人,是因為對生命和未來有了盼望

電影《簡愛》(Jane Eyre)有一句經典台詞:「愛不是沒有對方就活不下去,而是你們都深深覺得,有彼此的陪伴,人生會更加美好。」

Men want to be respected, and women want to be cherished. Never hide your appreciations to your life partner. Say it out loud. Give them hugs. 

 

司馬儀:當愛你的人感覺不到被你需要,他們很可能會因此有點傷心,或因此老的快一點。所以,無法說出口的愛或感激,就擁抱吧。不要在離別時才試圖擁抱。

 

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