The Positive Effects of Compliments and Love on Our Brains
Mark Twain once wrote, “I can live for two months on a good compliment.”
Most people are hungry for recognition and compliments. What positive and sincere words can do for the psyche and the brain? Generally, a person’s face might light up when he or she gets a proper genuine compliment.
Praise is an effective motivator as “social rewards.”
Compliments activate the reward centers in the brain, named the ventral striatum and the ventral medial prefrontal cortex. One study even found that receiving a compliment is just as thrilling to the brain as receiving cash, both are perceived by the striatum as “social rewards.”
Compliments boost people’s sense of self-worth
Rachel Sussman is a psychotherapist and relationship expert and she asserts that compliments are important for people’s sense of self-worth. She found that as you receive a compliment, the same part of your brain lights up as you receive cash.
She even takes a step further by arguing that a sincere, thoughtful compliment can leave a positive impact even years later.
Rachel Sussman affirms that compliments help people feel seen and acknowledged indeed by saying that “People just want to be recognized and appreciated for the good that they do.”
She states that giving compliments to someone for a character trait, an achievement, or the effort that they put into doing something such as preparing a meal can go a long way.
Most people are hungry for recognition and compliments. Kind and warm words are powerful vehicles to boost a person’s physical and mental health. Positivity-boosting compliments do have as a ripple effect, which will potentially lead to a beautiful domino effect.
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