療癒系分手小說《推理愛》黃宥嘉醫生推薦寫序|但,親暱的愛,為什麼最後好多都散了?

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有時候愛情,好像是個殘忍的東西,可以瓦解一個人的自信,那一天Viola的自尊心好像掉到地上一片一片很孤單很傷心。愛情沒有讓她容光煥發,沒有給她幸福快樂,只有烏雲密布甩不掉拋不掉的失眠症,然後她一次次更努力,以為投入更多就可以讓關係加溫回溫,結果只有換到對方的不屑和驕傲。

 

那個交往前巴著她不放每天在教室門口拿著氣球等她下課的男孩,已經消失很久了,那個每天一封情詩一封睡前簡訊的男孩,已經消失很久了,只有她每天提著他最愛的消夜去他打工的地方探班,或者手作便當,或者替他打掃宿舍,她那麼乖巧聽話卻沒有換到感激或忠誠的愛情,只有換到一個日漸跋扈挑剔的男友,挑剔她的美太俗氣,挑剔她的嗓音不夠女人味,挑剔她的髮型一成不變,挑剔她的手做便當蔬菜不夠多樣,挑剔她做的蔬果汁有餘渣,那個呼風喚雨的派對女王早就變成一個聽話的隨從,傻到讓人生氣傻到讓人想罵髒話,傻到讓人好想用力抱住她大罵她一場。我該阻止的,可是那時候,她還愛著,我又怎麼能阻止她去捍衛她那個不值得保護也不值得她眷顧的愛情,我又怎能去judge她的愛情是壞的愛情,但我到底是錯了,如果我早一點阻止她,也許她就不會傷得那麼重,如果我早一點提醒她,也許她就不會難過成這樣,難過到她都忘了她有多好,多值得被疼惜被保護。這世界好奇怪,一個男人如果吹噓他自己多聰明多有才華很多人會轉身就走,可是當一個男人對一個女人反覆說著自己有多愛她,多數女人最終會信的!

 

 

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Margaret W. Lavigne 司馬儀

There’s a strong link between imperfection, unconditional love and posttraumatic growth. In truth, we can only witness unconditional love in the hard times. If you believe in luck or miracles, be aware of the seven deadly sins and the seven heavenly virtues. According to the Bible, no one will be exempt from life challenges, including the chosen ones (1 Peter 1:3-9). God expects us to stay hopeful and “rejoice in our sufferings,” because “trials of various kinds” are training to make us “perfect and complete” (Romans 5:3-6, James 1:1-27). It’s comforting to know that “God promises to make something good out of the storm” (Roman 8: 28). We fall and we learn. As we learn to humble ourselves, life gets better. The connection between the brain and stomach is bidirectional. Excessive sugar intake sabotages our immune system and 70% to 80% of our immunity hinges on our gut health. Memory loss and cognitive impairment are common symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease, all of which are highly connected to type 2 diabetes. Early signs of type 2 diabetes include chronic fatigue, irritability, frequent urination, vision problems and slow wound healing. Depression is prevalent in people with diabetes due to the fact that diabetes causes “structural changes in the brain.” It’s worth noting that muscle-building helps regulate blood sugar levels. There is growing evidence that reduced muscle mass is associated with hyperglycemia. Beyond that, there’s a strong link between sleep deprivation and emotional weakness Be aware of the power of tenderness, humility and subconscious mind. Generally, negative emotions root in the inability to forgive, vanity or pride. People suffer from suppressed anger. God is watching our every move. God sees through our motives. Mental health crisis is sweeping on a global scale because the core value of capitalism is incompatible with what human truly needs. Money cannot purchase inner peace nor unconditional love. Wealth incurs fair-weather friends, frenemies and snobs. I would say, inner peace is the utmost blessing from God. Trauma is highly linked to chronic fatigue and chronic illness. Take time to deal with your old mental wounds. 佛教用因果論概括一切,而聖經主張人生必有難題(但好好表現,災難背後會有禮物),如果你以為誰的人生輕鬆,肯定你是跟對方不熟。脖子控管自律神經!肩頸僵硬,「自律神經」就會被受到壓迫!自律神經失調引發的症狀包括頭痛、暈眩、焦慮、失眠、倦怠、口渴、耳鳴,甚至憂鬱等症狀。自律神經失調了,血液的品質也會跟著惡化!解法:甩手操。腸胃健康和大腦健康息息相關,國外大力探討久坐對身體的傷害!健康建議:天芢無糖抹茶搭配芝麻和牛奶X 無糖豆漿X鹼性飲食X淋巴按摩X練肌耐力(控制血糖的關鍵)。鈣是解痛劑。維生素E主修復,可加速傷口癒合。高壓容易緊張族群可多攝取維生素B和鈣的食物。一夜白頭是心理影響身體的鐵證,勿低估負面情緒對身體的傷害,包括生悶氣或憂愁。詳情請參看網站醫療專欄。壞脾氣一定有理由,可能是高血糖或創傷症候群或高壓族群,而壞情緒會把幸運(福氣)和天使嚇跑。禍福相依,好消息可能會成為頭痛點,壞消息可能成為跳點!不屬於自己的只會逗留,不會久留,勿強求。引用小說《推理愛》:「判斷一個人愛不愛她很難,但判斷一個人珍不珍惜她卻很簡單。」「帶著疤,才可以找到真正愛你的人。」「柔和」「謙卑」與「歸零」的力量。自信缺氧,就用力學習。不自律就無法成為更好的自己,不自律就無法肯定自己!提醒自己:做該做的而不是想做的。預防改善糖尿病推薦食材:洋蔥、無糖抹茶、咖哩及酪梨。理財時代,從照顧好自己的健康開始。遠離乳癌,醫師呼籲不要使用塑膠袋裝熱食!國外研究證實:阿茲海默症患者「禁糖」便可望痊癒!人們低估了「糖過量」及「過食」對身體的破壞力。咖啡和巧克力的好被過度放大.精神不濟喝咖啡恐消耗維生素B。聖經說了,說過的每句話都會被記錄在一本書裡!好壞都被記錄了,所以聖經主張人們不可記他人的過錯。最佳午睡時間是20分鐘和90分鐘。以上,互相督促。生命線協談專線:1995 安心專線:1925 張老師專線:1980 自殺防治諮詢安心專線:0800-788995

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  1. 萬分感謝春子小姐給予那麼厚重正面的肯定!

  2. 春子表示:

    能夠看到“推理愛”這本書的人是有福氣的人。作者能夠生動活潑的描述男女之間的情愛關係,男女朋友看過此書後定會有所體會,成長,更加珍惜彼此。

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