男性朋友和男朋友:詳解友情與愛情的神差別

撰稿人:司馬儀

 

一、如果你和他之間是愛情,你對他會有遐想會有砰然會容易緊張,友情裡面不會有這些狀況!當你喜歡一個人,很可能因為過於在乎所以比較容易亂了方寸,(理性下滑是一個徵兆),友情反而可能自在度比較高,比較不會挑戰你的理性…我自己不會和異性朋友有任何肢體上的接觸,搭肩或共喝喝飲品都是絕對絕對不允許也從未發生的!

 

二、佔有慾的差別:如果你對他帶有愛情的成分,你對於他身邊的異性朋友敏感度會比較高,友情的話,你甚至會主動想要幫對方介紹戀愛對象…

 

三、如果你和他之間是愛情,你當然會忍不住想要去看對方的發文和照片等等….你會很想要了解對方,或主動靠近。

 

當你喜歡一個人,你自然會想把友情換成愛情,當你並不想把有情換成愛情,那就是答案了。難題是:如果對方對你抱有愛情的成分,很多普通的舉動或關心都很容易引發誤會。

男女之間的純友誼,對方立場一致才能成立

但很可能一開始都是有情,但最後有一方立場變了。不得不說,女性特質明顯的女生要擁有純友情相對更困難,因為最後男生往往想把友情換成愛情。

 

如果你喜歡的人根本就是你心目中200分理想男生,真的要自己的自信度很好,才可以在關係裡面很輕鬆很舒服….

 

人際關係最讓人傷心的莫過於女性的友情輸給愛情(譬如女生朋友喜歡的對象喜歡自己),又或者被有話聊的異性好友告白(你會害怕擔憂你繼續保持一如既往的友好或高連繫的頻率,會被對方誤解)

 

觀察:女性特質不明顯的人,即便與異性搭肩等等肢體互動,通常都會被合理化!但女性特質明顯的人,即便沒有做出任何值得被誤解的行為,就是很容易動輒得咎!

Wise Library 1985

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