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暗戀失戀語錄|中英文暗戀愛情語錄精選

暗戀一個人不可能會是浪費

知道世界上有一個美好的人存在,就是讓人快樂的事!暗戀一個人不可能會是浪費,能把歲月浪費在值得的人身上,挺好。青春,有他沒有他,青春都會過去,但有他的青春或歲月,肯定有更多值得牢記的畫面,或者更多怦然的瞬間。最成熟的暗戀是不打擾的思念。暗戀會開始不快樂,往往是因為貪心…當成功機率是零,你不會貪心,因為那叫做仰望,但不是全然沒機會卻失去,比較容易揪心糾結….

“I don’t know why I’m so afraid to lose you when you’re not even mine”— Nurilla Iryani, Dear Friend With Love

“I don’t want to be somebody’s crush. If somebody likes me, I want them to like the real me, not what they think I am”-Film, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

“If you care about somebody, you should want them to be happy even if you wind up being left out.”- Film, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

 

內向內斂的人往往被動,愛情是不是相對更艱難,因為每一步主動都舉步維艱?如果因為恐懼怕受傷而謹慎而小心翼翼,我們都忘記計算"放棄的成本"和”遺憾成本”。Podcast推薦:別再否認心裡不舒服:只要有擔心或討厭的事,血液的品質就會惡化

“Those who truly understand love are not afraid of their love being denied, for all they really want is for the other person to be happy .”― From Up on Poppy Hill, 2011

“Because I can’t talk myself out of being in love with you.”― Eloisa James, An Affair Before Christmas

蕭伯納:「愛就是把某個人與其他人的差異極度地誇大」

愛情是一種死心眼,當我們很喜歡一個人,你就是會覺得對方與眾不同,你就會覺得對方就是最好的那一個,你不想再去看別人…

“It’s nice to have a crush on someone. It feels like you’re alive, you know?”― Scarlett Johansson

「在不了解的狀況下喜歡上一個人,卻發現那個人真實的一面比你想像的還要美好,這應該算的上幸運」。—八月長安《橘生淮南·暗戀》。

▲電影《我就要你好好的》( Me Before You ) 有一句很浪漫的台詞:You are pretty much the only thing that makes me want to get up in the morning. 

影集《實習醫生》Grey’s Anatomy 經典台詞:You deserve to be with somebody who makes you happy, somebody who’s not gonna complicates your life, somebody who won’t hurt you.你應該和一個能讓你快樂的人在一起,一個不會讓你的人生變得複雜的人,一個不會傷害你的人。

我很愛你,所以雖然這個世界上的確是有比你高比你瘦比你美比你聰明溫柔懂事的女孩子,但是都不關我的事。-陸劇《致我們單純的小美好》Podcast推薦:別再否認心裡不舒服:只要有擔心或討厭的事,血液的品質就會惡化

 

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分手主題小說《推理愛》經典句子摘錄

2020催淚國片《親愛的房客》「沒有你或許比較輕鬆,但有你我會比較快樂」

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人際關係.親子關係.親子教育

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