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人物誌|IU出道前家庭巨變,看盡人情冷暖 …

韓國國民妹妹IU家境原本不錯,但父母替人作保,家中一瞬間面對大筆債務,父母為了還債到處奔走,她和弟弟都被迫與父母分開,她跟奶奶與弟弟則搬到小套房過日,奶奶靠著擺攤賣首飾賺取生活費。

 

回憶起當時的苦難,她說:「我記得那屋子特別的冷,因為加熱的鍋爐太破舊了,還不時吃馬鈴薯果腹。之後住的房子更糟,常有蟑螂亂竄。」借住親戚家和奶奶擠在幾坪大的空間,總不時被冷嘲熱諷說為何要賴著不走,沒有人看好她能真的成功,甚至對她說:「妳能當歌手的話,我就能成大富翁了。」因此她常躲在練習室不愛回家。

國一時決心成為歌手撐起家計,1年內開始參加20家經紀公司的選秀會但二十次全都落榜!聽聞有管道能進歌壇,沒想到將奶奶的首飾變賣換來的錢卻被騙錢,生活更加困難….

出道後,未能一炮而紅,甚至曾因體型遭觀眾取笑,直到2007年12月推出〈好日子〉後,歌曲連續5周位居韓國Gaon數位榜冠軍,才算熬出頭。出道後僅用了3年時間就還清家中所有債務。

    

2019年推出韓劇《我的大叔》

IU在劇中飾演與聾啞奶奶相依為命、遭債務纏身的打工女,拿下APAN亞太明星獎中篇電視劇女星最佳演技獎。

該幫你挺你的人沒有幫你
=大忙,我們希望對方幫自己,那是為難對方!
=小忙,對方不幫,看清楚關係的重量也好(或許對方認定自己跟你不熟或交情不夠,或者缺乏幫你的利益點),沒有因為小忙而欠下人情債也是好的,省下未來還人情的許多困擾也好

 

對方屢屢否定你低估你
=對方說的是否是自己的缺點,如果我們不容許旁人說缺點,或許我們自己也傲慢了?
=對方眼睛不好,看不見你的好

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