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研究一下Joe Biden|拜登的成長背景.婚姻與家庭

|Wise Library 1985 |司馬儀

 

家族是天主教徒。父親是售車員。他在大學時代取得歷史學與政治學雙學位。1968年他在雪城大學法學院修習法律博士學位,於1969年獲許進入德拉瓦律師會。拜登在個兄弟姐妹之中排行老大…

 

Joe Biden第一段婚姻

1966年,還在法學院就讀時,他結婚了,妻子是Neilia Hunter 。兩人生下三個孩子。1972,他的妻子和當時還是嬰兒的女兒因為一場車禍雙雙離世。他的兩個兒子,博和亨特也都在事故中受了重傷。

拜登當時在兒子們的病床旁做了就職宣誓(照片)。為了照顧兒子,據說他考慮想辭去公職,但被說服留任。

 

Joe Biden第二次踏入婚姻

▲1977年,拜登第二次進入婚姻,結婚對象是Jill Tracy,兩人擁有一個女兒。Jill Tracy 本身是英文的教育者,而她熱愛她的工作。Jill Tracy 遇見拜登以前走過一段讓她很失望的marriage,所以她五度拒絕拜登的求婚。她與他的兩個孩子相處非常融洽,她愛兩個孩子,長子和拜登一樣擅長表達自己的情感,而次子比較像Jill不擅長梳理表達自己的情緒,但即便這樣他們的關係還是很要好。

拜登求婚失敗之後,曾對她說:“I’m too much in love with you to just be friends.” 她出版了一本書,書名是: Where the Light Enters: Building a Family, Discovering Myself  書中談到許多她和拜登相識交往的細節….

▲人們渴望白頭偕老,但成為快樂恩愛的老夫老妻似乎向來不是容易的事…

▲Joe Biden長子長期支持LGBT權利,卻罹患腦癌去世。

▲▼上圖左至右分別是拜登第一任妻子生下的長子與次子(律師)

 

疾病降臨

1988年,Joe Biben因頸痛而接受治療,切除兩個腦動脈瘤,當時他因病有長達七個月未能到參議院工作。

 

司馬儀:對他的了解非常有限,在今日以前只知道他被貼上親中的標籤,也和一些負面新聞綁在一起。我對他的人品好壞肯定一知半解,但讀完他的故事,我的感想是:那些讓他傷心的往事和磨練,很可能在多年後成為人們支持他的原因!因為像我本身,比起人生一帆風順的人,對於經歷過重大困難卻有繼續好好過日子的人,往往會心生敬佩。

 

至於川普,我想因為疫情而承受喪親之痛的人太多了,因為疫情而失去穩定薪資與穩定工作的家庭也太多太多了!這些情緒都會反映在選票上吧。

 

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Wise Library 1985

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