兩性關係|曖昧對象有很好的異性朋友

曖昧對象有很好的異性朋友,是個很有趣的題目,司馬儀觀察到和碰到的,大概可以分成兩種價值觀,一種顯然重視友情甚過愛情,因為愛情對他們來說是不穩定不那麼靠譜而且可能隨時結束的一種未知數(有可能經歷過背叛,或目睹過太多愛情裡的背叛),所以不可能為了愛情忽視有情,行為上屬於有情致上(如果你的另一半屬於這一種,他應該不太可能或不太願意為了愛情疏忽或疏遠朋友)

 

另一種則是重視愛情甚過有情,對他們來說有情的親密度遠小於愛情(對戀人的信任度遠大於友達)不太相信男女之間的純有誼(異性朋友可能有,但很少,也不會密集聯絡),也可能為了讓另一半安心而絕對避嫌(一旦交往後就不會跟異性單獨碰面,私訊聊天的頻率也會大幅降低)

 

價值觀當然就會決定和異性的相處頻率和方式。對方的異性朋友,是在認識你之前就存在的,甚至兩人可能已經認識五年十年以上….(交往前,彼此成熟的話,是可以討論一下彼此對於跟異性交往的頻率和分界

 

昨晚睡前剛好看了影集<Good Doctor>第三季的第三集,有很有趣的發現,你會發現很多人可能交往前交往後很多很重要的話題都沒有討論到,就是會迴避一些其實深度交往很需要討論的事(很多人覺得交往不深問一些問題不適合,其實如果考慮未來的話,早點問早點知道適不適合更重要)延伸閱讀:戀愛合約範本「可以隨時離開卻選擇留下,才能…..」

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