情商這堂課| 「神經大條一點的人甚至完全不會察覺內向者生氣了」

很多人都誤會內向者不會生氣,其實是內向者表達生氣的方式比較溫和而已,神經大條一點的人甚至完全不會察覺內向者生氣了。反之,內向者常會覺得別人太容易勃然大怒、講話不夠深思熟慮、讓自己很受傷之類….對內向者來如果因為不喜歡生氣、爭吵,而總是隱忍自己的想法與感受….

 

內向者容易想太多,又不喜歡吵架,的確在某些需要快速應對的場合上容易吃虧….畢竟溝通的重點不僅止於如何表達,更在於如何讓對方完整接受自己的訊息…..

※ 本文摘要出自書籍《安靜是種超能力》作者:張瀞仁 | 出版社:方舟文化 | 2018/8/1出版

 

司馬儀:我承認在朋友同學面前,即便對方說了讓我覺得錯愕(對於對方竟然能說出這樣的話或價值觀),我通常不願意直說,因為不願意尷尬或僵局或疙瘩(但最後,我可能心理無法釋懷,而不願意再見面再接觸了)

 

只是對於一些讓人懷疑是否帶有惡意的言語或行為,當你有這樣的感受……我聞不到珍惜的味道,如果不珍惜,還是朋友嗎?

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