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「而你漠不關心的那些,總是會硬生生地給你兩個巴掌,這是常態。…」

 

周信佐《在名為人生的旅途,做個夢想的逃兵》

電影裡,Nigel 說:「等你生活全毀的時候記得告訴我,那表示你要升遷了。」….我以為這樣很好,直到某次我在路邊崩潰地大哭,我才發現一切其實不如我想像….

 

配合到看不見自己。宛如一種病,深入膏肓的病。而那樣的病,Ivee 在她的書裡寫過:當我們的生活不再以自己為重心。當我們只為了別人的擔心而擔心。這種病,叫做配合癌…

 

周信佐《在名為人生的旅途,做個夢想的逃兵》

對於生活周遭在意的實在太少了。而你漠不關心的那些,總是會硬生生地給你兩個巴掌,這是常態。那年,我遇上了全球性的金融海嘯….

 

除了裁員,各大公司也紛紛降低開銷,而行銷費用就是首當其衝的,除了設計公司本身的主視覺,設計較常態性的工作,通常是附在行銷所需的圖像與周邊製品。雖然不致於完全把預算砍掉,但在大餅變少的情況下,又怎麼輪得我這種接案新人呢。

 

我又再一次地經歷了膨脹與縮攏的狀態…常常為了配合工作,把自己搞到身心俱疲。有段時間,好友 H 剛退伍,到台北來找工作時,短暫借住在我家,當時他說,他很羨慕我的生活,我非常訝異。起初他只是問我處理學貸的建議而已,後來他說, 他覺得我的生活看起來很體面,我也很能掌控自己的生活,把生活過得很好、很規律,他很羨慕我 。「但其實,我比較羨慕你喔。」

 

我向他說,我們這種已經很社會化,生活只剩下工作的人,反而很羨慕他們這樣,可以不顧一切追求夢想。像我做了這麼多工作,但其實我一直不清楚自己要什麼,或是應該要選擇什麼工作,不像他,雖然看起來四處流浪,但我們都清楚,他一直都在唱歌這條路上堅持著。

 

「你開心的時候會拿起吉他唱歌,不開心的時候也是抱著吉他唱歌,不用問都可以知道,你人生就是要朝著這條路走了。但我卻沒有什麼事是讓我開心時也想做、不開心時也想做著的…..

 

Wise Library 1985

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