《受傷的醫者》:受過傷的心理醫生更能與患者同情共感

多數人應該會認同最積極的治療,有時候很可能是自救。我會相信感受被愛是最龐大的療癒力量。很多時候只要世界上有一個人願意理解當事人,當事人的傷口就有癒合的契機。

 

司馬儀:很多時候,傾吐的目的,不過是為了被理解而已。但不是當事人的旁觀者,沒有目睹發生過程的旁觀者,能理解多少?能理解到什麼程度?同情共感的同理心,經常可遇不可求或者被高估。

 

當你孤單或者被誤解,不需要太難過,上帝(老天爺)知道所有的故事和真相。

 

「但是隱藏在他那嘻笑怒罵後面的是深沉的缺憾,這根深蒂固的缺憾感,或許可以讓他更容易去貼近徬徨無依的人….蘇利文相信同病相憐(“Similia similibus curantur, “like cures like”)的療效….因為他們真正實在地被了解被接受…患者由是無須再處處提防時時警覺,復原的可能性自然也就大增了。」摘錄自受傷的醫者

多數人都認為不健康的人如何治療他人?但是筆者提到如果細讀國際著名治療師的傳記,就會發現絕大多數的治療師或醫生「常因為本身早年常為疾病困擾,或親眼見證親人的罹病或死亡…受傷的醫者,由於曾經身歷其境,而更有可能成為有效更貼切人心的醫者」。摘錄自《受傷的醫者》

 

筆者主張醫生或治療師「原來就都是受傷的醫者,他們救人先是為了救己….因為困於心,恆於慮,而後作…必得困而學之….更重要的是,從他人(病人)及自身的煩惱苦難中學習,才可能終於學而知之。」

治療師Viktor Frankl 曾經經歷納粹集中營的磨難,他認為「拒絕絕望的人,才有可能繼續活下去」關於存活的最重要條件,是能樂觀地相信明天或未來會比今天更好一點點更幸運一點點!

司馬儀認為,在自己的災難面前,唯有心中湧現想要保護的人,才是讓己停止關注自身傷口的方法。

 

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