容易生氣易怒,為討厭的事設”災難等級”1-10

撰稿人: Wise Library 1985司馬儀

容易生氣的人,易怒的三種原因:

一.處在是脆弱或受傷或高壓焦慮的狀態 
二.不擅長溝通的人:因為不擅長溝通,所以無法好好表達自己的需求
三.害怕衝突或過度迴避衝突的人,所以壓力負面情緒或委屈的情緒太久了

變堅強的辦法

1.不看自己的人生難題,只看旁人的脆弱與眼淚

2.克服自己的阿基里斯腱,專注學習,強大了,就容易原諒了

3.Focus可以給予什麼,而不是如何被回應(不要再因為誰愛你不愛你而快樂憂傷)

4.成為照顧者與受護者:守護最想守護的那些人(確信自己是被愛的,手寫逐一寫下被愛的記憶):研究發現悶悶不樂的情緒會讓大腦記不住美好的記憶

5.非常快樂了,就容易釋懷了

6.檢討自己的慾望是否太多是否合理

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