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Envy & Jealousy |Take Advice from the Bible

Wise Library 1985/   Margaret W. Lavigne

Galatians 6:4; “Let each one examine his own work. Then he can take pride in himself and not compare himself with someone else.”


People are impatitent. People suffer for what they can’t have in life. I would say, there is positive jealousy, namely wise envy,  and negative jealousy, namely destructive envy.


Those who have self-love and confidence in themselves practice wise envy and vice versa. Those who harbor absolute pessimism, self-denial, or even self-hatred are more likely to suffer from destructive envy by devaluing those they envy. 


People who practice wise envy will befriend those they envy and learn from their friends. By doing so, they keep becoming a better me. Those who suffer from negative jealousy are those who lose hope or suffer from depression, consciously or not. 


I would say, jealousy has something to do with self-denial, low self-esteem, and absolute pessimism. Everyone has hard lessons in life. People are jealous of other people’s life because they have little knowledge of what other people have overcome and conquered. The Bible makes it clear that you and I will go through training and trials in life. People envy others’ life and they prefer not to experience the life challenges and suffering other people have experienced. 


There is positive jealousy that you learn from those you envy about and you believe you can earn what you want in life even though it can never be perfect. Life can be beautiful without perfection, which can be applied to everyone. Separations and variables are the rules. We’d better learn to be grateful for what we have for the moment.

As we believe we are the lucky ones, we invite luck. As we believe we are the miserable unloved ones, we invite tragedies and regrets.

Take Advice from the Bible

1.2 John 1:8 ESV
“Watch yourselves, so that you may not lose what we have worked for, but may win a full reward.”

2. Mark 7:21-22; “For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed the evil thoughts, fornications, thefts, murders, adulteries, deeds of coveting and wickedness, as well as deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, and foolishness.”

3. Job 5:2; “Surely resentment destroys the fool, and jealousy kills the simple.”

4.1. Proverbs 14:30; “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.”

5. James 3:14-16; “But if you have bitter envy and selfish ambition in your heart, don’t brag and deny the truth. Such wisdom does not come from above but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where envy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every kind of evil.”

6. Exodus 20:17; “Do not covet your neighbor’s house. Do not covet your neighbor’s wife, his male or female slave, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”

7.1 Corinthians 13:4; “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

8. Psalm 37:1-3; “Fret not yourself because of evildoers; be not envious of wrongdoers! For they will soon fade like the grass and wither like the green herb. Trust in the LORD, and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness.”

9. 1 Peter 2:1-2; “Therefore, putting aside all malice and all deceit and hypocrisy and envy and all slander, like newborn babies, long for the pure milk of the word, so that by it you may grow in respect to salvation.”

10. Proverbs 23:17-18; “Do not let your heart envy sinners, but always be zealous for the fear of the LORD. There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.”

11.Galatians 5:19-21; “Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.”

According to the Bible, “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones” and “If you harbour bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts,” you will “find disorder and every evil practice” (Proverbs 14:30, James 3:14-16).


It’s scientifically proven that Jealousy triggers the body’s stress response, leading to spikes of cortisol. Coristol is the stress hormone. In a sense, jealousy has something to do with a person’s anxiety that he/she feels threatened by others’ existence. It’s worth noting that jealousy potentially provokes depression and chronic stress. Chronic stress is the best environment for cancer.  Jealousy has something to do with pride, vanity and narcissism, a sense of superiority, or even unhealed trauma. Vanity leads people astray. Save regrets in life. 

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Margaret W. Lavigne 


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