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TV Series 醫療劇影集美劇推薦 《The Good Doctor》 “How can I be so scared to do something I’ve wanted for so long?”

醫療劇影集《良醫墨非》The Good Doctor

劇中許多深刻的台詞,加上喜歡所有的腳色,不單單是醫療劇,因為男主角的內向型的人格特質很有趣也很有共鳴,是我喜歡這部影集的原因。很多人心很柔軟,但只是比較直率,所以就可能婉轉而直率。好像矛盾其實不矛盾,像是在自認不冒犯他人的前提下,就可能有話直說,但可能剛好碰觸到他人不想碰的題目了。

 

F做了一個艱難的決定,感受到溝通的艱難,當雙方的互信度下降或偏低(可能雙方都累了),說什麼,可能就很難被聽見了(說的人也忐忑不安,因為感受不到對方的善意)。有時候,可能不打擾,回到認識以前,就是最好的決定,即便不是最聰明的。F隱隱約約感受到被誤解,卻不能做什麼,因為面對的是閃躲。總是沒有合適的機會和立場去說去討論,很多事本來就是要深交的朋友或戀人未滿才可能討論。溝通的艱難,有時候是等不到timing或等不到一個合適的立場,或終於學會溝通技巧學會表達,可是對方已經失去傾聽能力了…

“Why are you so hard on yourself?”-Best lines from《The Good Doctor》

Margaret W. Lavigne: You don’t have to be perfect to be loved. Those who love you deeply and truly always hug you more tightly when you try to deny yourself for making a dumb decision. 

“Mistakes are good.” -Best lines from《The Good Doctor》


劇中對話

How can I be so scared to do something I’ve wanted for so long?

…Because things that matter are scary. 

Margaret W. Lavigne: Fear reflects our hopes and desires. As you overly fear of losing someone or someone, that’s a sign that you do really care.  Fear has to be controlled. 

“We just have to love other people for who they are and hope they love us too.”-Best lines from《The Good Doctor》

為什麼人們會喜歡上第一印象普普或第一印象不好的人,又為什麼人們會對第一印象很好的人最後極致地失望?可能是因為反感的最後諒解了,最初迷戀的後來失望了。所以,先知道缺點,再知道優點反而是好事???

 

劇中對話
“ I’m sorry. Clair told me to apologize because you didn’t want me to tell the truth. You only wanted me to support your position, even though it’s wrong.”

“ Well, I don’t accept…You were honest, brutally honest…Don’t start lying to me to make me feel good. You’re the only honest guy I know.

Margaret W. Lavigne: It’s never easy for people to retell their unhealed trauma or old mental wounds. By doing so, you have to force yourself to reexperience part of it. I can’t find a good reason for retelling a traumatic event if I stop suffering from it. 

 

劇中對話

“Why were you rude to me when we first met?” 

“Feelings change. I used to hate hugs.”

 “All of them make mistakes, and hopefully, all of them learn.”-Best lines from《The Good Doctor》

“ You’re never gonna be happy if you constantly live in fear.”-Best lines from《The Good Doctor》

Margaret W. Lavigne 司馬儀

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