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推薦書|丹麥人認為「摩擦是好事」

日本企業因為少子高齡化導致工作力不足,因此長時間工作成為常態,結果對方在時尚的咖啡廳裡反應很大地表示:「工作和家人哪一邊重要?你剛不是說家人很重要嗎?….」…每一個人都很清楚地主張自己的意見…他們認為「摩擦是好事」,大家都說新的想法是藉由與意見相左的人摩擦而產生。我突然回想起自己總是在討論時迴避衝突,或是察言觀色而給出模糊曖昧的回答,於是我反省了自己經常不知不覺出現不想被對方討厭的想法,比起成果更重視氣氛和諧。當然重視氣氛本身不需要被否定,我只是在想原來為了氣氛和諧,也會導致會議拖沓、難以產生好點子啊!摘錄自書籍《我要準時下班!終結瞎忙的「超.時短術」》

 

編輯:常見的問題應該是重視和諧>重視對錯。常見的難題是:因為過度重視和諧而可能避免溝通,就怕一溝通一直說,就成為尷尬的僵局或留下疙瘩或讓關係生變,或因此產生新的誤會…恐懼溝通的背後,應該是太怕關係出包,應該是因為過去有出現溝通失敗的前例,所以才有擔憂有恐懼。所以應該是增進溝通技巧,而不是避免溝通…如果交流和確實知道彼此的想法是最重要的,如果是希望關係更好這樣善意的motive…

 

書籍資訊

  • 《我要準時下班!終結瞎忙的「超.時短術」:528家公司、16萬人驗證,史上最有效的省時工作法!開會、處理郵件、製作資料效率激增!「週休3日」不是夢!》
  • 原書名:仕事の「ムダ」が必ずなくなる超・時短術
  • 作者: 越川慎司
  • 譯者: 林佩玟
  • 出版社:平安文化2021出版

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