Never Blame Yourself for Believing in the Goodness in People

By Margaret W. Lavigne 

Without full trust, there’s no true intimacy in a relationship. Thus, it is a commonplace thing to be a fool in love. That’s what most people do in love relationships. Generally speaking, people can’t be fooled out of foolishness but out of full trust.

 

In a sense, people “choose to be fools in love” by giving full trust in a intimate relationship because they are unwilling to suspect the ones they are in love with.

People fail to make a correct judgment in a love relationship because they tend to believe everything their significant partner said. We choose to give our full trust to the ones we love.  We tend to believe the goodness of the one we are in love with. For people who are decent in character, they are more likely to believe the goodness of human nature. For people who are essentially innocent and pure, they have no darkness in their hearts, they give full trust to anyone. Conversely, compulsive liars are those who fail to give full trust to their lovers and they never believe in true love nor unconditional love but deceptions. Generally, compulsive liars have serious trust issues. They guard their self-esteem with the ultimate efforts by prioritizing their self-interest no matter what.

It’s a wonderful thing to believe the goodness in human beings. Nevertheless, the one who is worthy of your love never betrays your trust. The man who deserve you love will never be the one who makes you keep practicing boundless forgiveness.

Margaret W. Lavigne’s book  on Amazon: Decode Bible Reading and Stop Worrying 

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Margaret W. Lavigne

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