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★小說改編必看電影《還有機會說再見》(Before I Fall)

海報寫著 Become who you are 聽起來好像老生常談,卻不斷被提起,與眾不同卻不被排擠或甚至被認同被認可,其實一點都不容易,一點都不輕鬆,還需要一點幸運

【還有機會說再見】BEFORE I FALL 電影預告Movie Trailer︱原著同名小說改編

題材:蝴蝶效應(Butterfly Effects)X校園霸凌

年度最佳YA小說改編,蟬聯《紐約時報》暢銷排行榜! 《漢娜的遺言》(13 Reasons Why)紐約時報暢銷作家傑伊艾夏(Jay Asher)大力推薦:「你別無選擇,不得不一鼓作氣把它讀完!」

 

劇情提要

花莎曼珊(柔伊德區飾演)與她的閨密們在情人節當日發生車禍死亡,但醒來後的她開始重複死亡前一天相同的日常…。如果接下來的人生,你會有什麼不同?你會不會敢於為誰挺身而出或做出更勇敢的決定?每一個的決定和選擇,或許都可能影響六個人的人生。拯救自己等於拯救他人?

 

由美國女性導演萊羅索楊恩(Ry Russo-Young)執導,改編知名青春文學作家蘿倫奧利佛(Lauren Oliver)的同名暢銷奇幻小說。小說受到美國圖書館協會強烈推薦,獲選為亞馬遜網站2010年年度最佳小說,蟬聯《紐約時報》暢銷排行榜,更被《漢娜的遺言》

 ▼▲女主角「莎曼珊」,由柔伊德區(Zoey Deutch)飾演。

普利茲文學獎得主卡洛琳馬克樂(Carolyn Mackler)評價:「這個故事不僅聰明、複雜,而且美麗得讓人心碎。」劇中 Juliet被 Lindsay 惡意的造謠中傷而被學校同學視為怪咖,她心裡太苦了,而想選擇結束生命,可是她卻不願意把真相說出來,因為真相說出來的話,Lindsay將會受傷,而 Lindsay 曾是她最要好的朋友


▼▲【我媽的希臘婚禮】(My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2)中的愛琳娜坎普里斯(Elena Kampouris)飾演被霸凌而試圖尋死的少女,而片中飾演柔伊德區男友的奇安勞利(Kian Lawley)是美國知名YouTuber,YouTube頻道(superkian13)有超過300萬人訂閱

▲Jennifer Beals片中飾演女主角的媽媽  ▼▲Before I Fall 劇中女主角的妹妹,演員是Erica Tremblay

劇中台詞Movie Quotes

Samantha to Juliet:I know we haven’t always been nice to you or whatever. And I really feel bad about it—I do.

 

小編司馬儀:不知道多數人會不會有過在人際關係中感到被辜負的感覺,自己有過這樣的感受,當中可能不乏有誤會,但可能表達能力和處理能力太差,會變成不對話的僵局或不聯繫通常是我造成的,當然是因為我生氣了(可是無法和好朋友吵架,所以不開心也沒有辦法說出來)

 

好朋友之間,通常不是大事而事小事,可能因為被誤會讓我很不開心,而對方又因為誤會你而做出一些舉動,你當下不想計較所以不想說,但因為彼此不去討論不去澄清,關係當然不會轉好,等到對方終於想通示好的時候,我便可能呈現哀莫大於心死的負氣狀態

 

近日驀然回首才發現自己也有值得道歉的事,好朋友可以跟我生氣,但卻沒有罵過我的事,朋友剛好就是生氣也很可能不會跟別人吵架的天秤座(我的上升也在天平)

 

另外一個同樣處理很糟糕的,已經是好多年前的事,要好的男生朋友跟我告白了,而我當時有男友了,他也清楚,為什麼當時會對他的告白如此生氣,也許是因為我意識到我們再也不能好好當朋友了,當時可能悲傷或錯愕的情緒讓我無法考慮到他的立場,當然也無法照顧到他的情緒

 

有這樣的感受,也許就是我不擅長人際關係,才需要看好多這類的書籍學習,擅長人際關係的人,像是豪邁型的姑姑應該就根本不需要吧

 

劇中台詞Movie Quotes

In that moment I realize how much I love the little everyday routines of my life…The details that are my life’s special pattern, like how in handwoven rugs what really makes them unique are the tiny flaws in the stitching, little gaps and jumps and stutters that can never be reproduced.

 

劇中台詞Movie Quotes

The whole point is just to show other people how many friends you have […] It’s the weirdest thing, I’m popular—really popular—but I don’t have that many friends. What’s even weirder is that it’s the first time I’ve noticed.

 

劇中台詞Movie Quotes

Plato believed that the whole world everything we can see was just like shadows on a cave wall. We can’t actually see the real thing.

 

劇中台詞Movie Quotes

Maybe for you there’s a tomorrow. Maybe for you there’s one thousand tomorrows […] so much time you can bathe in it, so much time you can waste it.

 

劇中台詞Movie Quotes

If I was going to relive the same day over and over, I wanted it to be a day that would make a difference […] It amazes me how easy it is for things to change, how easy it is to start off down the same road you always take and wind up somewhere new. Just one false step, one pause, one detour, and you end up with new friends or a bad reputation or a boyfriend or a breakup.

 

讀書會好書推薦

李笑來《把時間當作朋友》

幸運人生的四大心理學法則The Luck Factor: The Scientific Study of the Lucky Mind

《青春走得太快,領悟來得太慢》戈登.李文斯頓

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