Are You Trapped by Conditional Happiness?
Are you trapped by conditional happiness? Conditional happiness is that you allow yourself to be happy only when you fulfill all the wishes in life, and then finally you consider your life is perfect and complete.
Write down all your wildest wish lists and check if your ideas are reasonable or not. Write down all your biggest wish lists and analyze your wishes with rationality.
- Eternal forever love
- Accepted by everyone/ Earn the recognition from everyone
- Stable income, stable daily lives and future
- Will always be accompanied by the loved ones
- Youth (including perfect body and flawless skin)
- More wealth.
Eternity and stability are what we should not pursue
The aforementioned 7 wishes are what most people desire most.
Frankly speaking, we are not as rational as we suppose. We embrace a long list of wild wishes which are too unrealistic to be true. Eternity and stability are what we should not pursue. It’s not happening. Life is full of changes. You would never know what’s gonna happen next. Life revolves around variables. Eternality does not exist.
Therefore, we should be grateful for our daily lives when everything goes smoothly as usual, and embrace your love wholeheartedly when you are in love. This is the right attitude. Cherish people around you when you are able to give your love and affection.
What I learned from life is that if those you love feel they are unneeded by you, they might be heartbroken inside unconsciously or not and they might leave the world earlier as they are supposed to be.
Show them you love them and need them when you are able to show your concern and love. Show your love by giving more company.