【網路公審】怎麼回應匿名留言或網路霸凌?

【Psychology】酸民黑特心理學

面對網路匿名帳號留言攻擊或霸凌,沉默會被當作認罪或軟弱,還是冷靜的成熟?之前寫過一篇【Psychology】酸民黑特心理學。部落格寫了多年,我也是今年才遇到網路惡意造謠的不舒服經驗。有一瞬間認真考慮提告,一來是生氣了,二來是好奇心,我想知道對方是誰。因為接連三件事,五月份終於正面回覆那些網路惡意謠言或酸民的留言。(這個決定應該是受到一則事件的啟發。之前搜尋字媒體相關文章時發現,有blogger 在網上寫一些勸部落客不要搬家到字媒體的新聞,當時Andy 應該是字媒體的執行長正面直接留言了。有被啟發。)

5 月8 號有讀到一篇文章,蠻值得分享的。作者是第五德嘉,標題是:e時代暴民 網路霸凌 。文章提到1.網路上有所謂的獵巫效應。當網友找到可以攻擊的對象便會產生以千攻一的攻擊行為,就是一大群人聯合起來攻擊一個人。2.「以言廢人」當中台灣網路霸凌的五種可怕現象。3. 回應方式:「避戰被說心虛,應戰被說沒有意義。」也就是沉默會被認罪,應戰,也會被旁人說浪費時間或沒有必要或是公道自在人心等等。(好像回應也不應該)。隱忍,可能是錯的,但回應也不一定是對的,搞得被攻擊者手足無措無所遁依。

 

Luke 17:3-4
 “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them.  

根據這個說法,我認為遇到糟糕的人,應該喝斥不該沉默。

軟性的人類: 因為害怕衝突,通常想息事寧人,只能內傷或無奈,通常很容易欺負。

硬式人類:不是好欺負的,截圖蒐集證據直接上法院,霸凌者或惡人必須付出和解金或被官司纏身。代表性人物像是李敖的女兒李文。

【新聞挖挖哇來賓】李敖之女李文,發起MeTooTaiwan 行動,盼替父親李敖爭取諾貝爾文學獎提名

 

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影片筆記:刻意攻擊者,其時就想享受那種透過攻擊性的留言去獲得贏過對方的感覺。看這個影片,認真覺得訓練口才,訓練如何正確回應糟糕的人類其實很重要。

備註:這篇文章當然不是教學文,人際關係真的是一輩子的大學問,真的很想聽聽多數人的看法。

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