老公和爸爸,誰更靠譜?靠老公有理,靠爸族罪很大?

近日網路上很受歡迎的YouTuber理科太太被網民起底說家裡是化妝品公司,廣告小妹跳出來說:「線上的網紅都是有資源有背景的啦」,陳沂對此回應:「所以家裡有錢人家就不能真的白手起家膩?」

司馬儀:思考點:人們一邊反對年輕人依靠或借助爸媽的資源或資本創業(若這麼做,往往就被貼上所謂靠爸族的標籤),致使很多年輕人明明身邊有資源有資本,會為了骨氣或輿論壓力或其他理由走比較辛苦的路,單靠自己個人力量,追求低資本創業。

其實資源這個東西原本就不公平,單從求學私立公立、補習與否出國與否、是否請家教或買教科書等等。又,長相美醜體力優劣、人格特質的優勢劣勢(譬如有的人天生不擅社交或恐懼社交拙於表達,或有表達障礙)、智商高低(影響學歷能力)、運氣好壞(譬如身旁是酸民族或和善族)、戀愛運好工作運交友運考運等等。

每個人要修的人生課題都不同

社會本來就不公平,人生也本來就不公平……我想這是因為每個人要修的人生課題都不同。


很多時候社會上的議題都是價值觀的遊戲

有一天想到一個概念,覺得蠻有意思的提出來,三四十年前流行家庭主婦的年代,婚後妻子依賴老公是完全被合理化的,沒有人會因為女生是全職家庭主婦就批評她靠老公。即便到今日這個時代,如果一個女生的老公選擇負責經濟,要求女生當全職家庭主婦,選擇傳統的路一個主外一個主內,也不會有人因此攻擊那個女生靠老公。

題目來了:依靠老公沒有錯,依靠爸爸罪很大?老公和爸爸究竟哪一個比較靠譜?還是女生可以依靠爸爸,只有男生不可以?

很多時候就會發現很多很矛盾的雙重標準跑出來……老公和爸爸,當然是爸爸比較靠譜啊。單看台灣的離婚率就知道了。

可以選擇的話,多數人應該會樂意處在經濟無憂或衣食無憂的好環境,可以這畢竟是社會中的少數。但也必要因此成為被攻擊的對象吧。

理科太太對我個人而言,已經算是非常無懈可擊的指標性人物了。 理科太太近來被許多網友圍剿的事件,讓我再度深刻體會到人紅是非多、人言可畏的這些話的可信度與之真實性。只是過去我還是大大低估了嚴重性。結論是:心臟不夠強當網紅的話,真的很可怕。


此外,陳沂槓上廣告小妹。她發文先是嗆廣告小妹是「馬後炮王」,陳沂指出,當時貴婦奈奈捲款潛逃加拿大,廣告小妹馬上在臉書發文說自己早就聽說她們有財務危機。陳沂反問:「如果早知道為什麼不出來爆料,還眼睜睜的看著無辜投資人被坑殺。」「有空在那邊查理科太太家裡到底多有錢,幹嘛不趕快去追尋貴婦奈奈的下落,阿不是很多線民嗎?」網友則回覆「是她還曾說過知道貴婦奈奈的逃跑路線,還譴責網友說難道要公開說嗎?公開說出來會妨礙警方追捕,結果呢?」

 

Wise Library 1985

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