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<大叔效應> 男人都需要有一個讓人崇拜的地方!

「我不懂,為甚麼有些女生喜歡大叔?」阿靠不甘寂寞地壓低嗓音說。他們系上幾個視覺系的大一學妹都選擇了社會人士大叔男友,他清楚意識到愛情地域被瓜分。

人都是視覺動物,喜歡大叔肯定不是基於外貌協會,通常是因為大叔很罩、很吃得開,能解決小女生不能解決的問題,就像學生會會長那樣的角色。

 

可不是路上隨便一個大叔都可以,而是要有品味、知道哪間餐廳浪漫、知道哪裡好玩、知道如何傾聽女生說話的那種。說話口條很強這件事,很多女生會買單。一個有肩膀、有能力解決問題的男人,就是避風港!尋找救生圈的女生特別渴望這樣的男人,能幫自己搞定所有人生中大大小小的麻煩。

更多時候,小女生是戀上被疼愛、被珍重的那份對待,而多數大叔也享受被崇拜的快感。

 

愛情的本質往往參雜迷戀與崇拜。有一種男人,他自己強,他身邊的女人也得強,甚至需要輔佐他們,因為他們看不起不夠能幹或沒有能力的女人;但也有另一種男人,他很強,強到可以容忍身邊的女人不需要給他任何實質的幫助。

但即使這樣,每個男人都期望自己的女人有一個值得他傾心的地方,那個地方也決不會是容貌――容貌或許有用,但撐不過三年!

 

想起電視劇《武媚娘》裡有一句令我印象深刻的台詞:「對於擁有權力、重視權力的男人來說,想要得到他們的真心,不能只是一味奉獻和犧牲,最好的辦法是盡量做一個跟他們一樣平等的人。低若塵埃的姿態永遠都換不來男人的尊重,更何況是真情了。」無法平起平坐的感情關係,早晚會搖搖欲墜。在我看來,愛情裡可以保留自尊,但不該存有傲慢。世上總有些人能抗拒喜新厭舊的命運吧?有一個大叔告訴過我:「愛情若降溫了,那應該不是愛,而是一時的感情寄託。」乍聽好像有一番道理,但回頭想想,愛情本身就是一份感情寄託,完全不衝突。呵,大叔往往擅長文字遊戲。

 

 

Wise Library 1985

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