你能為另一半做的最美好的事:不是如何留住這份感情,而是如何善待這份感情

她在曖昧裡不安,她在愛情裡自信缺氧惶恐不安,其實你能為另一半做的最美好的事:就是給他一個更好的戀人。

一個更好的戀人的定義在於:你有一顆更踏實對愛情更堅定的心,你忠誠耿耿對他死心眼的專情,你會願意為他取捨妥協一些什麼,甘願地。

愛情,如果多惶恐多擔憂有用,那應該多擔憂一點。但我們都知道,你應該想的,不是如何留住這份感情,而是如何善待這份感情,如何在給予中享受這份感情,如何在親密關係中保持自在。

快樂自在的人,才可能為這份感情注入更多快樂的成分,而快樂比例較高的愛情,通常時效期也能走的更久一點。

很喜歡電影《生命中的美好缺憾》The Fault in Our Stars的一句台詞:It would be a privilege to have my heart broken by you.能為你心碎是我的榮幸。

電影《生命中的美好缺憾》The Fault in Our Stars|愛情電影經典台詞中英對照|能為你心碎是我的榮幸

電視劇《我可能不會愛你》金句懶人包|輸給了深愛的你,好值得

也許抱著這樣的心情去愛,就不會過度惶恐。因為相遇相愛已經夠幸福。貪心長久永恆的話,是貪心了。愛情的緣分能走多長,這往往不是可以被控制被決定的。小編還是很喜歡王菲說過的那句話:她說愛一個人的付出不能稱作付出,而是享受。

愛情必須負責?愛情,別說誰負了誰

日劇《阿淺》《結婚不結婚》男主角玉木宏低調戀愛,結婚在即|未婚妻也是日劇得獎女演員

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