「斷捨離」精簡良物和良人|你還有多少時間可以耗在這段擺爛的感情?

日本收納專家提出「斷捨離」的概念,主張透過「減法哲學」,斷絕捨棄多餘不需要的物品,脫離對無用舊物品的執著,藉由捨棄割捨的過程,還給自己一個乾淨俐落的身心空間,只留下最少量、最好、最適合自己的人事物。這概念套用感情上也完全成立!

實踐「斷捨離」才能強迫自己做出果決的判斷!「斷捨離」在日本已從收納風潮蔓延轉化成一股「全民心靈改造運動」,如:捨棄斷絕不必要情愛情。

#「斷捨離」核心精神定義為「精簡良物和良人」

生活上的應用延伸到精簡「忠誠度偏高的益友」、淘汰「有專情障礙症或說謊慣性的劣質男」、推掉不必要的社交,把多出來的時間用來陪伴真正在乎的人或進修、自我娛樂,心靈層面也會引起連帶效應產生正面循環,將時間留給美好的人事物。

太多女生明知道感情有問題,但因為「捨不得」而死守荒腐的愛情,又或者說以拖待變,殊不知「拖拖拉拉、逃避問題、坐以待斃的作為,也是一種作為」,而忙碌的生活恰巧給了自己逃避正視問題的合理藉口。對餿掉的愛情無為而治,跟自暴自棄沒兩樣。沒有作為,也是一種消極的作為。

拖著拖著,以為就沒事,死守不健康的愛情,沒有當場斃命卻也死了一半,沒辦法享受戀愛,也沒有辦法確實分手。

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